Hello everybody,
I am a teacher in the senior section of a reputed school. I am 27, is happily married and have a 4 year old daughter. I keep a close rapport with all my students since it's very necessary to be friendly with teens to handle them.It's about one of my favorite students. He is 18...a very good boy, studies well, very well behaved,sincere in whatever he does and is always ready to help others. That's a quality I appreciate the most since its very rare in the new generation. I was the club convenor of my subject last year , I needed help since I was doing it for the first time and he gave me his maximum support. He helped me in making subject magazines, in arranging exhibitions (he draws beautifully), seminars, typing my notes. ...We were very comfortable around each other.But in a past one or two months i noticed that his attitude towards me has changed.He is no longer comfortable when he is with me, avoids my eyes while talking to me.But I have caught him staring at me many times while I am teaching. He becomes very moody if I talk and laugh with any other student. I am very much worried for him. He is my most favorite student. I can see he is distracted in class and that will definitely affect his studies. He told me his exams were ok but still I am worried. I can't believe the boy who laughed and joked with me easily a few months before has completely changed. I tried to talk to him, but he is avoiding me. Now its vacation time, in three weeks the school will reopen. He usually used to call me to clear doubts but now no calls..i haven't heard from him since the vacation started. It was one of my colleagues(also my best friend) who suggested that he may have a crush on me. I was very embarrassed. But the more I think about his behavior... I don't know what to do..how to handle him...pls help me with your suggestions.. I want my best student back...next year i want to see him in in his usual self..
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